Love yourself enough not to lose yourself to anything or anyone. Hold on to who you are by constantly re-evaluating yourself and the situations you find yourself in. Ask yourself if your current situation is aimed at elevating you. Is it taking you on a path of growth, or does it have you stuck on yesterday? Don't lose yourself to some concept of what you think is needed in your life to make it complete. Know that a complete life involves a life full of love, life, laughter, a deep personal relationship with God. A life that is filled with drama and constant turmoil will not lead you to a fulfilling life. Do a self check---it's evaluation time.