If you find yourself overwhelmed in a relationship or friendship, ask yourself if you're in it by yourself. A genuine friendship or relationship involves two parties who are willing to do their part to create a balance. One should never feel burdened or as if too much demand is being placed on them. The relationship should feel easy.
Good support is needed in a relationship and it should flow both ways. We all like to feel supported and cared about. Don't just take the best out of a relationship, bring your best to it.