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Separate Yourself from Wrongdoers....

1/31/2015

We are in a world where if you stand for what is right you are looked upon as a person that is odd. You are also viewed as someone who thinks they are perfect. Standing up for what is right, does not mean you are trying to prove that you are perfect. Each and everyone of us know that we are far from being perfect, but that does not stop us for wanting to do what is right. When you stand for what is right, you will choose not to go down a certain path, a path that will try to steer you away from standing up for what is right. Don't loose yourself and your morals by trying to be a part of something that is wrong, separate yourself from evil and malicious talks.

We are all aware of what is right and wrong. Therefore if you recognize that something is wrong you should speak up. Separate yourself from behavior aimed at cutting down, humiliating, and deconstructing another human being. We were all created with a heart and we all bleed red blood.

Be sensitive to others. If you can't give love, then give a smile.

Think About Your Actions....

1/30/2015

Disappointments are a part of life, but when we choose to disappoint others with no regards, that is something else. Why choose to deliberately hurt someone when they did nothing to deserve it? Do we do it thinking it is for the person's own good, or maybe we think it is the norm? You know, it was done to me so I will do it to you. It does not pay to be spiteful or to get back at another.

We all have experienced pain at some point in our lives, so knowing what it feels like why would we want to put someone else through it. The end does not justify the means in this scenario. Be kind, be considerate, be wise when it comes to your actions. If you do not like something to be done to you, then do not do it to someone else.

Think about your actions.

Why Applaud Bad Behavior?

1/29/2015

Why do we continue to applaud, praise and accept bad behavior? We see it in our workplaces, churches, etc. Do we accept it because the individual is a high contributor to the entity's financial gain? I believe that when we accept it we are setting a precedence. But what a precedence to set. I believe that at all costs, we should always stand for what is right. What about our ethical responsibilities? That seems to fall by the wayside until it is challenged.

When we choose to accept bad behavior we are choosing to be the mastermind of our own downfall. When something is wrong, we should stand against it and not alongside the wrongdoer. Stand up for what is right today.

What is Your Story?

1/28/2015

Many of us will never know the story of the person sitting next to us. The person sitting next to you exuding such a graceful and strong presence could have gone through the most negative experience, but they were able to overcome. We have all gone through a lot in our lives, we have endured and some of us continue to endure abuse, self-hate, depression, etc. What is keeping our feet planted firmly on the ground? Our faith and our story, each and everyone of us have a story to tell. Many of us believe that we live and after we are done living that is the end of it all. But I believe that we are all writing a story, because we all have a story to tell.

Let us be respectful and considerate of all. As they say, "everyone you meet is going through something". So even the person that seems to have it all together is dealing with something.

May your days and story be filled with blooming bouquets of flowers.

Hitting Rock Bottom....

1/27/2015

Sometimes in life we need to hit rock bottom, to force us back from our own demise. There are times when we get on the wrong path, and it does not matter what anyone says or what we see for ourselves, we continue to carry on as if everything is great.

We will start off thinking everything seems perfect and good, but eventually figure out we are on the wrong path. Instead of stepping back, we continue on the wrong path. The only thing to keep us from crashing is a roadblock. Don't allow yourself to hit rock bottom if you can prevent it. Pay attention to what is happening in your life and recognize bad signs for what they are. Don't stay on a train that will take you out....you are wise and smarter than that.

Have a smart day!

Choose for the Right Reasons...

1/26/2015

Don't settle for just about anybody just because you want somebody. Far too often we get caught up in the moment, the glitz and glamour and end up losing sight of what is important to us. Yes, it is a thrill to be noticed and be impressed upon, but eventually all that fades. When the excitement and thrills dissipate, what are you left with? Hopefully it is something you will be satisfied about.

Be wise in your choices so that in the end you will be happy with what is left. Remember your worth and never settle for the sake of having a partner. Know that you deserve the best and the best often take time, so be patient and take the time to work on yourself. To get the best you have to work hard, so if something comes easy think twice about it.

Have a wise day!

Keep on Cheering!

1/25/2015

Your greatest, best and first cheerleader is you. Learn to depend on yourself. Others may not believe in your dreams and rightfully so, because a dream is not tangible...no one can see it or feel it until it has materialize. So cheer yourself on. If you have a dream, put a solid plan in place to realize your it. Once you have a plan in place, present it to a few people and get some feedback. Accept the negative feedback as constructive criticism and re-work the weak parts of your dreams.

Keep pushing yourself on. Don't allow the voices and thoughts of others to undermine you or to drown out your cheers. You know who you are, you know how far you have come and you know where you are going. You can see your vision and you also have first hand view of how it can all play out. The possibility is there for each and everyone of us to be great, so don't stop cheering.

Keep Pursuing....

1/24/2015

The day you decide to stop trying is the day that whatever you have been working on has died. No one wants to put a lot of hard-work into something only to give in and give up. We strive for excellence, we strive for the best and when we truly want something we pursue it with passion and drive. We do not go after something that we want only to give up mid-way into it. If we decide to give up on what we have been working on, we either went after it for the wrong reasons or we simply did not have any passion for it.

When we want something, we pursue it with all that we have. We would even stay up all night to achieve our goals. If you are passionately pursuing something today don't give up. You will have rough moments...moments when you may re-consider. But don't give up, it takes time to create a masterpiece. Remember, God did not create the world in a day. He took His time creating a masterpiece. Because we are here today, I know He never gave up. So do not give up! Keep on pursuing!

The Light Within Us....

1/23/2015

There is a light that is burning deep within you...a light that you may or may not want the world to see. It is a light that can set off a storm of hope, a storm of peace, a storm of love. Do you know the value of your light? There is no price to cover your light. Each of us possess that light within us. We can do so much, we can light this world...set off a storm of positive change. We use a little bit each day; when you smile you are using your light. Wouldn't it be heavenly if we all allow our lights to shine throughout all the world? The world would be such a happy and peaceful place, filled with love, hope and unity.

We need our lights to blaze across our universe. Let us use our lights to end world hunger...let us use it to create world peace...let us use it to create love for our brothers and sisters. The world needs our lights today. Are you willing to share your light...are you ready to set it ablaze for all the world to see?

Shine your light of love and peace today!

Inspiration Comes in Many Forms....

1/22/2015

We all seek inspiration as we go each day, because we get to a place where we become stagnant, or we may simply lack the inspiration to go on. When we get to this place, we may reach out to others, or we may find self help material to get us rolling again. Just as how we turn to others for motivation and inspiration when the need arises, others may do the same. We all have it within us to inspire and motivate, we learn from the good and bad choices of others. We should never look at someone's negative situation and think, "oh not me". We should however, look and learn. Your steps may never lead you down the same exact path, but there may be similarities.

Learn from others around you, take mental notes. You may not have use for them today, but they may be of great value sometime later in your life. We all have the capabilities and life lessons to inspire and motivate, regardless of our background. Learn what you can and teach what you can.

Have a blessed day!

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I believe knowledge is something we gain through our life
experiences. These experiences may seem similar to what others may go
through, but each one of us experiences are unique to us; they are tailored
specifically for us based on our strength. Regardless of the differences, I
truly believe that we can help each other with the difficulties we face by
sharing what or how we were able to overcome. I, myself have been through a
variety of difficult times and I will utilize this platform to share such
moments and how I was able to pull myself
through.

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triumphs in our lives. This site is to provide healing, enlightenment,
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